Queer and Transitioning from Sad to Happy

So Its real and its not fake. It can actually happen for all of us. We can truly be happy. We just have to find our own lake. Or maybe its the transition from Summer to Fall. Who knows, but  I am finally able to see how someone can become happy. It's like Toni Morrison. Toni Morrison didn't truly find peace until she found a lake in her back yard. I say this to say, to all my queer and black readers, Find your lake like Toni Morrison. She found a lake that provided her peace. As she was given peace, she was able to actually write masterpieces and be recognized for her artistry and work. Peace and happiness are simultaneous energy. When you are able to disassociate yourself from others issues and problems, you are able to find the peace in your own situations. Now this doesn't that trails will not come about, but what this does mean is that you are able to control the narrative a little more. Instead of feeding into what's not working out, you are able to feed into how tp solve the problems and not make it worst than what it is. Feeding into the issues will only create the issue bigger than what it is. I personally ignore any negatives that bring themselves my way Ignoring honestly can be hanging up on a negative rant or phone call. Distancing yourself away from people who don't have anything positive to say. Not being apart of people issues by not acknowledging them or the issues they carry. I use this everyday. I even put people away for a while and unpack them in the future. If that person still lingers in the same place and space I left them in, I no longer communicate with them. I too deserve to be happy. To all My queer and black readers, How do you find a way to be happy? Do you look to be happy by helping others get to happiness or do you hep yourself? Helping others get to happiness has been the ultimate struggle. One can not help anyone be happy. One has to choose. Its a literal choice. I know it may be hard when you lived an unhappy life for so long. Like i get it. I was there. Waking up every day burnt out because your doing things that don't make you happy. Ranting to yourself over and over about the same shit. You don't have to be in that space. You can literally change the way you live by easily switching up the routine. Whether it be stop smoking weed, or not checking your phone until you get the need to. I also have started to stop answering the phone for certain people. I get tired of discussing the same shit. I have to stand Ten toes down on what I feel. We or whoever is reading this is grown now. We have to be healthy enough to live and make a better life. To all My queer and black American readers, what are you doing to live a more humble and better life? Are you as a queer and black American, sticking to brand? Have you started to educate yourself on ways to look over the negative? have you started to cut certain people short or put them in their place?


xoxoxoxo

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