Queer and friends pt. 2

Trust is a hard thing to come by. Trusting someone is even Harder when you‘ve protected yourself for soooooo long. Feelings Such as anxiety or fear graces your chest. Your heart begins to unfold causing your body temperature to rise. All because you’ve intrusted something or Someone to hold your secrets or Simply something dear to your heart. You would think it’ll be easier to share with friends, but it’s easier to share with people you don’t know. It’s also better to recieve voices Of reason from others rather than those who hold your emotions in their hands to protect you from what they make think may trigger you. Being aware that in adulthood “friends” or “Best friends” become obsolete due to extremeties life imbues on you. you have to realize that the definition Of trust changes over the course of your life, and those who you thought you could trust, are no longer trust worthy. As an adult, god opens your eyes and Begins to reveal details about individuals you’d never thought would see the light. It’s like god is taking your trust glasses off and putting on your revealing shades. Trusting yourself first is honestly the key to knowing

who to trust as friends and even relationships. Trusting that you know what you want and you know what you desire , allows your spirit to draw in those who you will find simultaneous trust within. So don‘t be fearful being queer and black While your trust and friend groups change. These are apart of our life seasons, and trust / friendships are not exempt. Everything has a tree that was been watered by you or others. A tree will always find its way to shed it‘s leaves.

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