Queer heart Waiting for love: Part 3

Waiting on something to find you, seems like the best option at this point. Log off all of those dating apps. Cancel all those dating subscriptions. Delete every dating profile. Its nothing like living your real life and actually enjoyinv live music or a park. Meeting that special someone in person is way better than over an app that holds anxiety. It’s like speed dating With bad intentions. Genuinly getting to know one another's good and bad flaws instead of dating to get to the one stop shop, sex. Since theres been a rise in hyper sexuality and a low in actual dating and communciation. Peoples intentions are not as they use to be. Lies are more previlant than before and truths are used to hurt instead of helping. In the rainbow community, we tend to move fast. We base our relationships off others and what they want us to be. When in reality, we need to define our own roles as 2 men in a relationship. We need to build our own formula. You have to be as unique as god made us as individuals because none of us were created to think the same. Being queer black and a man is bigger than webster dictionaries, its bigger than same sex marriage. We still haven‘t took advantage of our own communities abilities and attributes. We invest so much of our money and time in other things however, we need to actually build on educating others about same sex relationships, build on how to make the dynamic of 2 men in the house work instead of basing it on heterosexual norms. We have the mind & strength. We must start to change, to change the perception of the world for our own good. As a queer black american, what do you think is best for us to do to try to come together?

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