Queer and Healing: Pt 2

 

You ever been in a space in your life where you are just tired of yourself self-sabotaging your own life? The feelings of not getting it right or knowing that the game you’ve been playing no longer satisfies your hunger for growth. If you’ve experienced or are experiencing this, you are not alone. As a Queer and Black male, I find that it’s easier to be persuaded or succumb to what social feels comfortable or what tolerates you in their spaces. You don’t have to settle for things because you are greater than what they define you as. However, for those who do fall into these non-identifiable and prehistoric definitions find themselves not living in their truth. When you don’t follow your path or your truth, you start to find yourself in a place where you don’t feel like you’re fulfilling your true-life purpose. You’ve entered the cycle of comfort. This seems convenient until you notice that you are not actually completing the eternal work that was predestined for you. You are now self-sabotaging your personal life. You must stop hurting yourself just because of what makes you feel comfortable or feel at ease. Life is not supposed to be easy. Sometimes you’ll put yourself in deeper situations that you were never intended for you to be in. Controlling the narrative that was already written by the powers that be or the powers we can’t see. As a man, and as a queer man, please do your best to follow your heart. Allow both your mind and your heart to connect. Follow what speaks to you rather than what you perceive. Be kind to yourself by listening to yourself. God made us in its image. We have God inside of us as God is everything that it has given life to. Allow yourself to breathe and make natural mistakes. Listen to what your heart tells you is either “good” or “bad” for you. I urge every Queer Black man who reads this to stop Sabotaging what’s already yours.  To all my readers, what are some practices you use to minimize negative thoughts? What are some great ways to prevent self-sabotage? How do you help someone who is self-Sabotaging?

 

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