Queer and Still growing: Part 4

You ever looked around you and realized that they aren‘t the issue. You ever sat in your head and analyzed your emotions and thought, “wow, im the outlier.” Taking accountability is fine, yet the bigger picture is that, in a room full of people; be who you are. It would be dishonarable to yourself to go out Your way to be around people, who are not for you. In many eras in your life, you’ll find yourself being placed around people who just don’t resonate with who you are. You Understand that they don‘t gave the same mind nor heart you possess. It’s ok to reserve who you are for the greater purpose of refining and healing yourself to be greater. Yes, you may find some people who can relate to your story or who you are but they are not your comfort zone or those you feel comfortable with. To find peace in these situations, you can find your lake lake like Tony Morrison. Finding eternal peace and creating it to be your external peace, allows you to be free mentallh without worldy constraint. Building and healing through this type of peace, trascends you to being a more understanding individual regarding your own personal growth, perception, and reception. You will start to see that your identity is souley based on how you control your physical and emotional enviornment. Controling yourself to where you share only certain things with certain people. Becoming more private and more quiet is an eternal superpower that helps with manifesting. Also, understand this, my queer readers. Not sharing your thoughts abd feelings stops others from putting negative thoughts, words, or premeditated ideas on your goals or accomplishments. Protect yourself when you are learning about yourself better. Not everyone deserves all of you.

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