Queer and Versatility

 Every single one of you queer people are vers. I bet it gets so boring trying to stick to one agenda. I bet it gets tiring being a robot. I Know you in the mist of your robotic relationship your desires and wants change. As a fellow member of the queer community, I have changed myself. What you think you liked no longer serves you. You are a tree, you will forever change. Trees don't keep their leaves forever. You are aloud to shed what you used to know and become what you are now. Imagine someone being a robot as a human. As we all know robots need strategic programming to follow through and complete tasks. Humans were nt created by god to complete specific tasks. We were created to perform and be multifaceted. If you are still stuck in being a "Bottom" to "top", I think it's time for you to get over yourself. I think to like men is to like men. Now I do believe that what you like is what you like. However, please do not limit yourself to just talking or receiving penis. Some people miss out on the love of their lives because they have settled in the comfortability of their "right now". You have to be willing too take on diVERSity in your relationship. You have to be able to understand that you are a man in this relationship as well.Being a man is invitable as this was ordained to you by god. If you are a bottom and you've never topped before, that's totally fine. I'm sure with you being a bottom though you have been attracted to certain men. who also classify themselves as bottoms.For the tops reading, You can not sit here and read this blog and not be real with yourself. You literally have to be attracted to others dicks than your own. This isn't for you to go out your way and just try new things. Only do these things when you are comfortable. I ultimately will only perform tasks outside of my norm only for fun or through my own consent. I will never perform tasks that I see as me being to intimate or ever extending myself for someone else. But I do say to anyone who is in a committed relationship to question and explore because what one person won't do another one will. And again, its better to be diverse than to set limitations on yourself and others. You were free when you guys met one another, why control each other now? I personally know that it may be fearful however you must get over yourself. You have to really learn yourself and the partner you are with. A really big fear in a relationship is becoming old or not being entertained. Someone getting bored of you. That hurts the worst. For all my queer and Black readers, How do you feel about being vers? Have you participated in very activities? What has been your role and that Have you been thinking about doing or diving into? Would you ever challenge yourself to go outside the box in your relationship? 


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