Queer and Sex: Part 1

Is watching porn protecting you? As a queer black community, does porn allow you to protect yourself from any issues that may arise From fornication? People watch porn everyday, but is it beneficial or healthy? Like all things, everything Needs balance. When you eat to much salty, you need sweet. For the car to work you need car Maintence. For you to get to work, you need transportation and for transportation, you need public riders. However, when does a person say, “oh this is to much porn usage?” We are living in a world now where sexual protection (physically or spiritually) is now the taboo of topics. Over sexualization has engulfed our social media pages, our idols, and films that we show our children. Throughout the years, over sexualizing the human experice has grown since the early 2010’s. With this growth came the aggresive usage of porn. Porn has always been in our lives however now it’s more evident than before. Porn has its pros and Cons. However, I do see the cons but I would like to talk About the pros. Are the pros of porn actually beneficial? Can it protect our future children from deadly or life changing envounters? Today, in the queer black community, porn is like our right hand man. Porn has now become mans “bitch“, every mans best friend. However, one must make the judgement call when it becomes to much. Its ok to release tnose emotions, as every human being has the sexualized emotions. But porn should only be used to the benefit of us than to harm others or yourself. You’d be surprised how man young adults or teenagers have been exposed to pornography. I also do want to say that Porn should not STOP you from sexual interracting with others but know that porn stops you from sharing yourself so much to people who don‘t Deserve that part of you. Sex is a spirtual thing and sharing that part of the cake is like telling yourself you don’t deserve to reserve the best parts of yourself for the person who will cherish it. as a generation, we can not change tor what is now, as we must manage and change the narrative of sex and how we percieve sexualization so that people can protext there mental, emotional and spiritual well being. as a generation, there has to be a change in how we treat and educate our queer blaxk people on how sex is used snd precieved now. what is the best way to change the narrative of sex, porn and sexualization of other humans? Do you think sex ED and health still can make a difference in our community? Do you think sex ed and health education should also extend ghe knowledge to a more spiritual / chemical standpoint?