Queer and Not understanding people who are 35 and up

        I don't like a lot of individuals who are 35 and up and let me tell you why. It's not because of your age or your era. You all have lived through amazing eras of life. It's about your mindset. This is to make you upset and this is to challenge your way of thinking. Some background about myself. My mother, father, boss, coworkers are all this age and have lived through these eras. I am noticing a couple of patterns between all of you adults who are at this age in y'all's life. Y'all don't take accountability for shit. Y'all talk to much shit to not have changed shit in the past couple of years. Furthermore, you all completely disregard the youth as if we were the mistake that happened to America. Let me explain this to you, you are the mistake of your parents. You didn't change a thing and kept passing on your trauma and issues to the kids you had. Then expect us to just know how to make change and be better people yet yall never provide support because yall never had it. Yall fuckin suck. But yall don't have to stay here any longer. There is help and research available to those who are seeking for elevation and actually trying to grow outside of what they are used to. People in general are so used to holding onto what they know. Hell I do the same. Cherishing memories isn't holding or harboring. You have to allow the feelings to be free as well. I am TOO now learning that the memories are just lessons and that you will be able to not suck if you allowed the memories to be a teacher. I am not going against you, I want you better but the only way for you to be better is for you to accept the truth or at least hear my opinionated truth so you can think. Think outside the box. Think outside the circumstances. For those who are reading this at 35 and up, do you want to change? What are some things that you can change on your own? Do you feel like you'd feel better if you were in a space of understanding? Are you not expressing yourself how you would like? 

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