Queer and Being single

 Being queer and in a relationship seems like it's a rare sight. It's actually like its going extinct. Seeing a queer relationship is like seeing an endangered animal in the wild. Seeing a queer relationship is like you having a chance at finding a Sabor-toothed cat. However, seeing a queer and single person is so common. Going to queer events, you have all these single people stuck to their friends and not actually experiencing life. Or you have the ones who are unhappy in their relationships looking for a single baddie to conquer. I'm not to fond of the ones who have relationships and think that I'm an opportunity. I cut them off at their first attempt. I recently had someone try to enter my life again while he was informing me of his engagement. Long story short, I blocked him. I'll never take you serious or entertain anything or anyone who participates in these shenanigans. Anyways, Being single Pringle in the Queer capital of America is such uninteresting vibe. No one in Atlanta truly know what their desires are. I think this may be the Queer capital for Queer singles. Being a single queer male, I find that there isn't a true care for maintaining yourself and befriending other men. Gay men who you seek for friendship still court you like your together. Thats so odd to do Like there aren't real boundaries between two friends. Thats also what I discussed in my previous blog about Friends and Benefits.  In the queer community, they project this weird and odd way of being with one another. Maybe that's why I haven't ventured and settled with someone. However, being single in atlanta is very odd. If you are queer and single in atlanta, you are not alone. You find many similarities with those who are queer. Especially if you are not that single queer who has to be at every club or queer function. Or the queer who fights off of the strength of alcohol. I don't even have queer male friends because of my fear of betrayal and being hurt in my past. I'm a healing work of art like everyone else is. Has being queer and single become the norm? Are we all looking to sleep with one another without actually building friendships or is this all that the queer community wants? Do we actually want more for ourselves or is that a statement thats outdated. For those who are in queer relationships, how is that working out for you? For those whop are single, Has it been a struggle to be single happy and sexual to those you are suppose to trust for however long you guys meet?

xoxo